Tuesday, August 9, 2011


Hey bitches! 
Over the next week or so, 
you are going to see some crazy shit happening over here.

D is busy fucking in every room of her new place, 
so she is going to take a break.
[I'm hoping I can get her to pop in for a few guest posts, though.]

Bare with me, though,
[see what I just did there?]
because some exciting shit is about to go down!!

Monday, August 8, 2011

What Makes a Hunk?

Today we are hearing from Lydia over at Sensual Ride. She writes an awesome erotica centered book blog and today she's talking to us about what makes a hunk.

What Makes a Hunk?

What do you first think when you hear “erotica”?


Well, yes. I’ll give you that one. However, I was leaning more towards the men. The hunk, or hunks, of the erotica novel. So…what makes an erotica hunk? What makes us drool, pant, wet, and wanting more?
To be honest, I can’t answer that as everyone has different tastes. I could say it’s a dominate man that’s not afraid to tie the woman up and give her a few spankings for being a bad girl, and you could scoff and close the window. And we don’t do that do we? No.

So, these are some things I think make an erotica hunk. And I’m going with just a regular M/F couple here since it will keep it simple.

Number 1: Personality

Like the plot of the story, the hero is just as important. We have to somehow connect with the hero whether he’s a Dom in a BDSM story or just an average man attracted to the heroine. He can’t just appear on the page, ravish his partner, and then leave. That’s what the quick reads are for. The quick fuck we need, not caring about the characters; just caring about the sex. Hell, the characters could be strangers for all I care.
I won’t say he has to be sweet because lets face it; some women want a bad boy. And the right bad boy would be a bastard to everyone, but as soon as he looks at his woman, he’d do about damn near anything because she has him wrapped around her pretty little finger.

Number 2: Alpha

He has to be strong, and not just physically, but emotionally. He has to have strength that keeps him going, keeps him in the chase for the one he’s after. He can’t just give up and be a wimpy ass because the girl said no to a date. It’s why she said no to his sorry ass in the first place. Though, if he started becoming a stalker we’d have problems.

He can be a silent Alpha because everyone knows, the silent types are always the freakiest and the ones who most surprise you. He can be a geek who has social issues for all I care, but when it gets the bedroom, I want him to be able to dominate that woman. And not only that, but he has to be able to step up when it’s time.
And like any good Alpha, he knows when it’s a good time to let another take the lead. He has to know that he can’t dominate each and every time, but let the woman lead. That’s right, he has to know when it’s time to let her tie him down and ride him till he’s stupid and speaking gibberish. It’s a win-win for both I think.

Number 3: Mind blowing

At the beginning, I said that when you hear “erotica” you think sex. And let’s be honest, no one wants to read an erotica where the sex is tame or even mediocre.

The hunk has to have a way of pleasuring their woman that makes sure they never go to anyone else. Even when their having a quickie, they have to leave their woman, and us, weak in the knees and breathless. Yes, the emotion adds to the pleasure; however, we, and the characters, don’t always have time for making love. Some moments call for a quick fuck.

They also have to be willing to try something different or pushing the woman to see how far she can go. And when I say push, again, I don’t mean the whole Dom thing by tying her down and spanking. That would go under trying things. No, when I say pushing her, I mean something like prolonging orgasms. See how long they both can hold back and to come to one major orgasm, or how many orgasms he can give her before she cries uncle and is contemplating putting on a temporary chastity belt so he can keep his hands to himself just so she can sleep.

There are more points to an erotica hunk, like his physic, but that’s pretty given. I mean, have you ever seen an erotica cover with a chubby guy. Don’t get me wrong, chubby men need love too, but the hunk has to be…well a hunk. He has to be fit. The woman doesn’t really matter. In fact, I like reading an erotica novel with a woman with some meat on her bones - more to love - since not all women are a slim, blond hair, blue eyed skank.

Now, if anyone finds a man that fits the erotica hunk characteristics, send his ass my way. I could use a hunk to ravish.

Friday, August 5, 2011

It's Friday!


I am so ready for 5:00 today. Something bad is happening with my foot and I am in crazy pain. All I want to do is sink into a hot bath and prop this thing up! But alas, Friday Follow must happen!

This Week's Featured Bad Girl!

Cinful Cinnamon


The Button must be visible. Put it in your post or in your sidebar, I don't care, but we have to see it. If it's not there, you're link will magically disappear ;)

You must go give love to the week's Featured Bad Girls. If you'd like to just give them a shout out and link in your post that's fine, or if you'd rather visit them and leave a comment, whatever floats your boat. Let's make sure they feel the love though.

There is a code. A very secret code. A code you only have if you actually read this post before linking up! What is it?

I need a Valium

Yep, that's the code. It needs to be on your blog. In your post, hidden in a side bar, wherever really. Have fun with it! 

Want to be a Featured Bad Girl? We NEED your guests posts! If you want to be considered for an interview on Talk to Me Thursdays, simply e-mail us!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Talk to Me Thursday with Cinnamon

It's Thursday! Today we are talking to Cinnamon! So see what she had to say and then go check her out!

1. What makes you a Bad Girl? 
Probably the fact that I've probably lived longer than the rest of you.  I've had 3 major brushes with death, two of which required me to use my wits to get out of.  The other was just dumb luck. If you reach 54 and you've had as much fun, been to as many places, met as many fucking awesome people, and had sex with them as I have I would say that makes me pretty fucking "bad". Or good, if you look at things that way.

2. What would you say is your theme song? 
This really sound really stupid I suppose, because it's not a hip hop or punk song.  But it's one that I thing describes me to a T.  And that's the song "Always a Woman" by Billy Joel.

3. Where is the baddest place you have ever had sex? 
On the wing of an F-15 fighter jet. The wind was blowing, we were scared as shit that we'd get caught, there were people working all around us and they never knew. Of course it was night time, but it was sooooo fucking awesome.

4. What are your top 3 picks for sex positions? 
Doggie style, scissors, and ME on top !

5. Why did you start blogging? 
2 years ago.  It started out as a way to get the truth out about what really happened at a place I worked, then blossomed into an avenue to "tell the world" the awesome story of ME.. And to get all the demons out of my head.

6. What do you do when you are not blogging? 
For recreation? I do some crafts, ride the motorcycle, work on the trike my hubby and I are building, I read, oh, and go to swing clubs and house parties and fuck strangers because it's fun.

7. Who is your favorite Bad Girl in history? Why? 
Another weird answer.....but I'm going to say Princess Diana.  I think that she was just coming into her own at being a "bad" girl.  I feel that if she hadn't died, she would have gone down in history as truly one of the most influential women in the world.  As it is, look how famous she is for having endured a loveless marriage, having two great boys, and all the charity works she did.  If she'd have had enough time, she would have ROCKED the world.  I know she was looking for love, but her spirit was an untapped well of "badness". Hell, she should become an honorary Bad Girl just for sleeping with Charles....Uugh !

8. Can you describe a Bad Girl moment you have had? 
I am honestly not trying to toot my own horn, because I don't like to do that.  I've always been a woman that leads by example instead of taking out a billboard to announce my "coolness". Whether in the military or management positions that I've held.  If you can believe it, I was a manager for a Wendy's back in the 80's. The store I ran was one of the worst ones in that region.  I worked my ass off, and everyone else's asses off to get it cleaned up, and run right.  Then, we got a surprise visit from Dave Thomas (the founder) who personally congratulated me for the job.  I was nearly busting with pride.  I probably could have gone on to a great career with that company, but I went back in the Air Force because I missed it.  LOL  Maybe that would be a "dumb ass" moment.

9. Thongs, hipsters or none? 
Hipsters. Although I will wear the others, I prefer hipsters.  There are some really sexy ones. Plus, I don't like to wear butt floss (thongs) because my ass looks like I have hail damage !

10. Can you suggest a Bad Girl to us? Why her? 
I know one, but I don't think she would "come over to the dark side" with us.  She's led a life that is FULL of badness, but she has kinda left that behind her now.  But I try to tell other girl bloggers about this awesome bunch-o-bitches !!!

Tuesday, August 2, 2011


Hey guys!

I'm busy. Too busy.

I'm scaling back my non-income activities and The Bad Girls needs at least one more member to help pick-up the slack. If you are interested e-mail us. Hell, we may need more than one! But I don't have the heart to let it sit complacent again.

Give us a shout if you're interested.